Rather, the word “no” is more a platform for further negotiations.
A local friend explained to me that this is a sort of test.
He proceeded to ask you out no less than 150 times, your refusals to accept him only bolstering his resolve.
Finally, your defenses worn down, you conceded to go out for a drink with him.
Will an invite back to your hotel lead to a night of passion or a slap in the face and a condemnation to the fires of hell for your sinning ways?
Considering most young men live with their parents yard lengths past an acceptable age (by American standards), you’ll be forced to meet and greet the fam even if he just wants to swing by home to pick up the movie tickets he forgot. If you agree to crash at their place, don’t act so abashed when you have to despedir the entire family the next morning.
While the relative calm of a laid-back cocktail bar might appeal, the best approach is to head towards the sound of a pounding salsa beat and shuffling couple feet, according to James Flood, a 30-year-old British who has had numerous romantic (or so he claims) dalliances with local Latinas in his travels in Guatemala, Nicaragua, Panama, Cuba and Colombia.
Salsa Dance “Get a couple of basic salsa lessons – seriously,” he advised.
Argentine women will not put up with bullshit, hence the reason so many expats new to Buenos Aires are turned off at first. Be genuine, be yourself, and be open –basically everything you think they’re not.
Once you find the right friends, you’ll discover that Argentine women –like the culture in general—are open, considerate, and overwhelmingly genuine.