It might make things more exciting to have a forbidden, secret relationship at work.Just remember, it should be based on more than that—if it lasts, you’ll have to tell people about it eventually.Rarely will you get a boyfriend in a fraternity saying “Why do you need to go to this meeting? Regardless of what they are interested in doing in the future they have such an amazing background knowledge of how a company will work, and the social skills and connections in order to promote themselves to the best of their ability.
As with any situation, it helps to consider the pros and cons of dating a coworker.
While you're still technically single, why not expand your options?
—Lyndsay Katauskas, MEd CON: By dating multiple men, you're relying more on luck than dating experience to figure out which guys are keepers and which ones to throw back.
If you know from the beginning it's a no-go, you're just wasting their time and your own.
—Samantha Karlin PRO: Fun dates with many guys keeps you in control.