I’ve met plenty of women who are in a hurry to get married.And I understand the reasons: biological clock, all your friends are married, you feel like “it’s time”, you want to have final commitment, etc.You're happy to make the next move for one of his opportunities. Or maybe you know you both want kids and he wants to take extended paternity leave.Maybe you've also agreed that you should each get 45 minutes to yourself to go to the gym every day, or you plan to buy a home and move to the suburbs in five years. We’ve had our problems but have worked through it all and I really want him to pop the question already.There was a moment when he talked about us being married, but he joked that I should be the one to get him the ring.The problem is, there are many considerations that guys have to make that you need to consider too. Personally, I don’t plan on getting married until I’m ready to start a family.
You can’t just hop on a plane to visit a friend you haven’t seen in years whenever you feel like it.
Your life is filled with a series of possessions ephemeral from the onset.
Typically, when something’s outdated, broken or less than exciting, you’re looking to ditch it and pick up something new.
If someone to spend the rest of your life with is at the top of your list, it should be topping his list too.
If you’re not the most important thing in his life, or close to it, you’re not the one for him.